Assalammualaikum....
Lately, Muammar adalah sangat susah untuk makan...saya adalah sangat susah hati..:(
Dulu, masa introduce solid at 6 MOS, dia cam ok jer makan puree. Bagi bubur nasi pun masa dia dah 7 bulan...masa tu bagi yang dah di blend and campur EBM. Alhamdulillah..dia makan..walau tak banyak tapi buka mulut jugak tiap kali saya suap.
Time bergambor, senyum pulak yer... |
Tapi, sejak-sejak 8 bulan nih, nak bagi dia makan memang kena bersilat bagai...Muammar dah pandai tutup mulut rapat-rapat...geleng-geleng kepala...makanan masuk mulut, dia kemam...pas tu sembur...
Ya Allah..menguji kesabaran sangat-sangat okeh....Naik meroyan ibu dia nih tengok "cerdik" nya Muammar..dah pandai tunjuk protes tak mo makan...
Moi + pumpkin+ bilis_ banyak nih pun tak abes.... |
Time makan pun nak main...ginilah jadinya... |
Nampak tu atas karpet tabur-tabur makanan dia..sebab dia sembur-sembur..huhuhu |
Saya dah try bagi macam-macam..pelbagaikan makanan dia...dah bagi ayam, ikan, sayur, buah...pendek kata apa jer suggestion for baby food, saya cuba...pasta pun dah buat.....resipi yang single ingredient or mix ingredients...even nasi dan lauk homemade yang biasa-biasa pun dah try....tak jalan jugak dengan selera dia...
Tiap kali bagi, sesudu dan 2 sudu pertama bukak mulut..then pas tu, puhhhh kiri...puhhhhhh kanan....puuuuhhhhhh depan......haru biru dah every meal session...:(
Kadang-kadang geram, saya paksa jugak Muammar makan...I know...I know......its no good....tapi saya tak mo dia tak makan langsung. Cemana nak buat nih....????????? :'(
Nak bagi anak makan ni ada beberapa petua atau rule yang kena ikut.
Antara yang penting...JANGAN PAKSA ANAK MAKAN!!!!! Saya dah buat banyak kali..huhuhu
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Tapi takpe la..meh kita share pasal feeding our baby. Lain-lain info pun boleh dapat dari sini.
Inilah baby yang taknak makan tu...:P |
Tanda-tanda baby nak makan:
1.Badan dorong ke depan macam tak sabar
2. Mulut kumat-kamit cari sudu
3. Capai makanan dan cuba masukan dalam mulut
Tanda-tanda baby tak nak makan:
1.Tutup mulut bila disuakan sudu
2. Meluahkan semula makanan
3. Mengalihkan kepala bila sudu disuakan
Sebenarnya, bila baby dah tunjukkan tanda-tanda dia dah tak mahu makan, kena STOP IMMEDIATELY!
Takde dah dialog-dialog..." sikit je lagi sayang....." "last..last..dah nih..." atau " satu mulut je lagi...."
Suka wat muka manja tu kannn...haiiihhhh..:D |
which is itulah yang saya buat pada Muammar..:( And i fell really bad....
Each baby is individual so treat him like one. Kadang-kadang ada baby yang kena tunggu at least a year, untuk dia belajar makan makanan pejal selain susu. So in the meantime, ajar dan ajar dia untuk terima solid food....
Ok, kat sini saya share sikit apa yang saya dapat belajar....
This is another reminder for mommies ~ taken from Baby Center
Here are some tips for helping your baby try (and eventually eat) new foods:
* If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Your baby may hate his first, third, and ninth exposure to carrots, but the tenth time may be the charm.
* Experiment with different ways of presenting food. Your baby may not like bananas by themselves, but he may love them mixed with his favorite oatmeal cereal. (Just be sure not to introduce more than one new food at a time, so you can see if he's allergic.) Likewise, your older baby may prefer shredded steamed carrots to sliced.
* Try new food when you and your baby are at your best — when you're both well rested, in good spirits, and healthy.
* Your baby will be more open to a new food if he's hungry (but not overly hungry), so give him his new food first.
* Don't stop feeding your baby if he makes a funny face — it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like what he's tasting. He may just be reacting to the distinctly different taste.
* Babies are easily distracted, so keep TV, music, and toys to a minimum during mealtime.
* If your baby seems interested in holding the spoon, give him his own. That way he can feel more like an active participant without slowing down the feeding.
* Give your baby your undivided attention during feedings, whether you're holding him on your lap or facing him in his highchair. Try to keep your facial expressions positive, even if you're serving a food you detest.
* Let your baby see you eating the same food he's eating. He loves imitating you.
* Your baby may like a new food but still only eat a few teaspoons of it. That's perfectly normal.
* If your baby gives you the thumbs-down on a particular food (closing his mouth, turning his head, throwing the spoon), don't force it. Try again in a few days and he may surprise you by gobbling it up. Forcing food or showing your frustration may turn mealtime into a negative experience full of power struggles.
* Switch things up. Your baby may tire of eating bananas at every meal and give up on them entirely. Plus, a varied diet is more nutritious for your growing baby.
* If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Your baby may hate his first, third, and ninth exposure to carrots, but the tenth time may be the charm.
* Experiment with different ways of presenting food. Your baby may not like bananas by themselves, but he may love them mixed with his favorite oatmeal cereal. (Just be sure not to introduce more than one new food at a time, so you can see if he's allergic.) Likewise, your older baby may prefer shredded steamed carrots to sliced.
* Try new food when you and your baby are at your best — when you're both well rested, in good spirits, and healthy.
* Your baby will be more open to a new food if he's hungry (but not overly hungry), so give him his new food first.
* Don't stop feeding your baby if he makes a funny face — it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like what he's tasting. He may just be reacting to the distinctly different taste.
* Babies are easily distracted, so keep TV, music, and toys to a minimum during mealtime.
* If your baby seems interested in holding the spoon, give him his own. That way he can feel more like an active participant without slowing down the feeding.
* Give your baby your undivided attention during feedings, whether you're holding him on your lap or facing him in his highchair. Try to keep your facial expressions positive, even if you're serving a food you detest.
* Let your baby see you eating the same food he's eating. He loves imitating you.
* Your baby may like a new food but still only eat a few teaspoons of it. That's perfectly normal.
* If your baby gives you the thumbs-down on a particular food (closing his mouth, turning his head, throwing the spoon), don't force it. Try again in a few days and he may surprise you by gobbling it up. Forcing food or showing your frustration may turn mealtime into a negative experience full of power struggles.
* Switch things up. Your baby may tire of eating bananas at every meal and give up on them entirely. Plus, a varied diet is more nutritious for your growing baby.
The great lesson of all
" Your baby will never starve himself or herself! "
On the other note......Saya mesti menjadi ibu yang sabar...:) Takmo dah marah-marah Muammar bila dia refuse to eat.....Kesian anak ibu....
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